Quick Guide: Talking To Your Kids About Online Safety

21 January 2018, Monisha Bajaj

From carefully crossing the busy streets of Bangkok to healthy hygiene habits, we naturally talk to our kids about safety in the physical world. Now, these safety lessons also have to extend to include digital spaces.

As we know, our little digital natives are adept at quickly learning how to use all kinds of technology. How do we teach our kids about a world they might know better than we do? Equip them with skills they can apply to any digital situation.

While social media is a large part of this topic, it is only one part of the online safety conversation. The internet is giant playground with many arenas for your kids to explore. Here is our quick guide to talking to your kids about using their tech time safely.

Empower Your Kids with 3 Key Digital Safety Skills

Thinking critically

Critical consumption of any form of media is important. It is especially necessary online.

Internet scams are carefully designed to appeal to us. This is known as social engineering, a technique used by attackers to manipulate your behavior. For example, disguising a malicious link in a way that convinces you to click on it.

Children can be particularly susceptible to these tactics. Imagine your young one getting a personalized message saying “you’ve won a prize!” They might get excited and click on it. Only to find out it is a phishing attack designed to download a virus to your computer.

Start by discussing how they should apply critical thought when asked to perform actions on the internet. Teach them to question links, buttons, emails, forms, or messages they encounter.

Navigating the clutter

Just as we prepare our kids to enter new physical environments, we should let them know what they can expect to see in their browsers.

Ask them what they usually notice online. For example, links, banner ads, search boxes, pop-ups, explicit content, or email advertising. Discuss what is out there and the purpose these different elements serve. This will help prepare your kids to discern what is okay to click on and what to ignore.

Have a judgement-free conversation about what your kids do or see on the internet. Learn about different scenarios they may be confronted with and discuss their experiences. Then, see where you can provide guidance to help them make safer decisions.

To share or not to share?

Address the act of giving away information. We are often asked to share some personal data in exchange for access online. This could range from an email address to a credit card number.

Decide what information you feel comfortable letting your child share and come up with general guidelines together. Is it okay to put in an email address to sign up for a game? Should they check in with you before entering in a home address or phone number?

Do you want your child to use their real name on the internet? Maybe you want to decide on a fun nickname together that can be used for services and accounts they create. If to do this, remember to explain why—that it is important to be aware of any identity information you chose to share online.

Tackling safety on the world wide web with your child should be a team sport. There will always be something new out there, that your kids might even know about before you do. Keeping conversations open and developing key behavioral skills will allow your kids to enjoy their online experiences while reducing the safety risks.

Editor’s Note: Monisha Bajaj is a digital content producer and strategist. With a background in communication, cybersecurity, and the arts, she writes for critical minds and creative souls.

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